"The first use of the Internet we have seen that shows real promise for helping vast numbers of couples from the privacy of their own home."

Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth A. Schmitz
America's #1 Love and Marriage Experts, authors of Golden Anniversaries and Building a Love that Lasts

Why CoupleWise?
Because all relationships can be better ™

Real, powerful tools and exercises that combine wisdom from the best experts and wisest couples with cutting edge technology to help you:

  • Discover precisely what your partner needs to be happy and content
  • Understand how to meet each other’s most important needs
  • Talk without blame and criticism about your unmet needs
  • Stop arguing and replace it with “win-win” problem solving
  • Motivate your partner to strengthen your relationship
  • Put lots more fun and play into your lives without scheduling it!
  • Create much more satisfying affection, sex, and physical intimacy*
  • Make and keep agreements that are mutually satisfying
  • Learn the root of each other’s triggers—know each other at a much deeper level
  • Appreciate and celebrate your relationship’s strengths

Completely private and confidential!

90% of users report CoupleWise improved their relationship after the first session

The easiest way to learn or strengthen the skills and insights you need to revitalize your relationship

What users are saying about couplewise.com?

Why is CoupleWise more effective than other solutions?

Powerful, science-based tools like these:


Clarify Your Needs

What do you really need to be happy in your relationship? Our exclusive tool helps you each assess the things you actually need to be happy — and communicate them to each other in a stress-free way.


Motivate My Partner

Our tool does just that! How? We offer the wisdom of the smartest therapists, and crowdsourced input from the wisest couples who share what's worked for them. Choose & rate each tip, the best ones rise to the top.



Our tool makes it easier than ever for you both to create an agreement that is noticeable and more easily enforceable, and gives you the reminders you need to keep them. Again, you get the benefit of expert Therapists & wise couples.


Resolve & Connect

This interactive video-based training tool teaches couples the skills they need to replace arguing with both empathy-based listening skills and need-based conflict resolution skills. Learn at your own pace!


Fun & Play

Solve the problem of how you can have more fun together by turning daily living into an adventure. Over 330 creative, free, and easy ways you can make each day much more fun! The crowd even rates the ideas, & you can too!

These are some of the tools we’ve developed. We have many, many more in development & on the way! Try CoupleWise.com for yourself now!

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